RESPONSIBILITY AND YOU

June 23rd, 2010
 
Ok – Would like to talk about being honest and taking responsibility – if you don’t acknowledge what you have done or where you are at work wise, health wise, relationship wise and money wise how can you fix it??  You CANNOT CHANGE what you don’t acknowledge!!! SO FESS UP!!! You are only fooling yourself – nobody else really cares. STAND IN YOUR OWN TRUTH - GOOD BAD UGLY AND BEAUTIFULAll of it counts!!
 
This is a post I wrote earlier in the week on my facebook page.  It seemed to get a huge response from folks so I would like to workshop it more with you all.
 
Ok we have committed to changing things.  What do we need to acknowledge that we could have done differently or better in each area of our lives that we haven’t acknowledged earlier.
 
Work wise – ok business isn’t booming what do you need to take responsibility for?
 
What could or should you be doing differently to improve the business? Improve you sales funnel? Improve your conversion rates??
 
Health wise –  are you taking care of yourself or are you burning the candle at both ends?  Do you take care of your diet are you exercising do you have a weekly meal plan? Are you ensuring that you fill your body with the food it needs to keep you running efficiently?
 
Soul wise – Are you feeding your soul?? Do you take time out to do the things you love to do and that make you happy?  Do you stop and smell the roses ever or is it go, go, go all the time??
 
Relationship wise – How are your Key relationships?? Whether you want to acknowledge it or not this can have a HUGE impact on all other areas of your life!!  Especially your business. So what do you need to take responsibility for in your relationships that you haven’t done so far?  Who do you need to make peace with? Including yourself??
  
HOMEPLAY TIME
 
So your homeplay this week is to sit down and look at all these areas – there may be extra that I haven’t included here.
 
Look at taking responsibility in each area and then work out how you are going to change things in alignment with your commitment statements of last week.
 
Voila – Acknowledgement + Commitment allows you to change and more success is achievable!!!
 

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To your FABULOUSITY

YOU ARE ALL IN OR ALL OUT – YOU CANT HEDGE YOUR BETS IN YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!

May 27th, 2010

Time to Re-claim your life, your business YOUR FABULOUSITY!!

This week I want to talk about COMMITMENT. Now’s there’s an all encompassing word isn’t it?
Commitment takes many forms, commitment to your partner, commitment to your family and children, commitment to a particular way of living your life, a particular philosophy and, finally a COMMITMENT TO YOUR BUSINESS.
I have a question for you? If you are not doing as well in your business as you would like. Are you TRULY COMMITED to doing whatever it takes to make it a success or are you HEDGING YOUR BETS??
What I mean by this is – are you taking a no excuses approach to your business? Are you doing everything you possibly can to bring in new business, retain current clients and grow your business for maximum profit? Or are you doing “little bits here and there” and getting back exactly that?

What I have noticed is that as women we tend only do the little bits and pieces – keep it moving, keep it floating but not moving forward. If you want to make something a success – whatever it is – your life, your relationships, your business you have to work at them you have be ALL IN you can’t sit on the fence and hedge your bets. It’s time to take a no excuses approach to moving you and your business forward and it will happen at a rapid pace as soon as you make the commitment – the universe will rush forward to support and guide you giving you all the tools and techniques you need to get things happening – FAST.

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HOMEPLAY TIME
So your assignment for this week…

1. Write out a commitment statement for yourself. What are you going to Commit to for yourself from Now on.
2. Write out a commitment statement for your Business.
3. Write down 6 things that you will commit to doing for your business each and every week
4. Write down your commitment to your family – (wife,husband,partner,kids,friends etc)
5. Write out a commitment for your life. How will you live your life from this day forward combing all the other statements.

Now put that up somewhere where you will see it every day to remind yourself – NO MORE HEDGING BETS!!
NO MORE FENCE SITTING!!

TIME TO RECLAIM YOUR LIFE, YOUR BUSINESS YOUR FABULOUSITY!!!!!

Love & Success

Terri

Gratitude and the Law of Attraction

May 27th, 2010

Hope you are feeling FABULOUS and are living FABULOUSLY

– Where is Terri?

Well this week it’s all about the change of seasons in our house. Getting the winter woollies out and trying to ward off all the new bugs that are around the school. We have had a bit of the colds and flu in our house (including man flu which deserves its own e-zine LOL). Then a week on my own while my husband was away – I have this WHOLE NEW APPRECIATION FOR SOLO PARENTS.
On Sunday night – The universe took to me with MASSIVE PIECE OF 4 x 2- I HAD FORGOTTEN my gratitude – well not forgotten really just perhaps taking some things more for granted than I realised. Although I try to be grateful for everything that comes into my life. (some things are little more difficult to be grateful for than others LOL ). However, what I noticed is that busyiness was creeping its ugly head back into our house and so I had to put a great big stop to it!!! Got my gratitude journal out and realised I hadn’t written in it for over 3 weeks.
So I took some time out and sat down and regrouped. Re-focussed on what was really important in my life and why I live my life the way I do. I am soooo lucky to be in the position I am in and to do what I love for my work. I work part time, earn an awesome income and am there for my kids and husband. We live a lovely lifestyle and have worked hard to get here. So for that I am truly grateful.
What is it that you are grateful for??? Have you ever really thought about that?? My extra tip for you this week is to get yourself a journal and start recording your thoughts in it. What you would like to achieve, what you are grateful for, and how you would like to improve things so that you are truly living your purpose.
Time to be FABULOUS people

To your Fabulousity

Terri

Here’s why you’re not making more money in your business or Self sabotage – Fear and its crippling effect on you and your business

May 5th, 2010

One of the major themes running through emails, and phonecalls each week with my clients of late is the recurring theme of fear and self sabotage.

You can be fearful in a number of different ways for a number of different reasons:

· fear of success

· fear of failure

· perfection issues – it has to be perfect before you get something out to clients (that never happens by the way)

As a result you don’t take action and if you don’t take any action in your business you bring in any new clients – results – NOTHING happens

Solution:

· make a plan

· get clear on who your market is

· speak to them in a way they understand so they know that you can help them solve their problem

· get out there in a big way – connect, be social, network

· use all the tools at your disposal

Because there is no real payoff for fear! If you are going to be fearful you may as well get paid for it!

Homeplay:

· go make yourself a list of all the things you are not doing that need to be done to bring in business

· outsource what you need to

· get out there and tell people your message

· OK – START NOW!!!

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How to Train your Dragon!!!!

May 5th, 2010

HOW TO TRAIN YOUR DRAGON!!!
by Terri Cook

Over the school holidays I took the kids to see “How to Train your Dragon” and WE LOVED IT!!!

Over the next few days it got me thinking. What if we all had the courage like “Hiccup” to do the complete opposite to what everyone else in business around us was doing. What would happen?

Then, I started thinking about mindset and marketing and people who are successful like Oprah, Richard Branson, Rupert Murdoch, Bob Proctor, Rhonda Brynes of the SECRET, Napoleon Hill and Wallace Wattles just to name a few…

What did they do? Did they do the same as everyone else or did they regularly do what’s counter-intuative to what people generally do in Business??
And the obvious answer is YES – they sometimes totally went against what was “thought to make you successful” and have achieved massive success, wealth and power in their chosen fields of business.

Like Hiccup they MADE THE DECISION to do something different.

For those who haven’t seen this movie – its about a boy (the son of the leader of the Vikings who isn’t regarded as terribly “vikingy” in stature) who was soo keen to prove himself he went out to slay a dragon and found that he couldn’t actually bring himself to do it. Then, he started to pay attention to the fact that the dragon wasn’t behaving like everyone said it “should or would”. Then he noticed it actually responded in a friendly way by him doing completely the opposite thing to what everyone had always done or always thought about Dragons. He started interacting with the dragon and developed a relationship with the dragon, who came to know, like & trust him.

Not dissimilar to what we all should be doing with our clients!!!

It’s a fascinating story about walking your own path, believing in who you are and how your life, luck, mindset and worth can turn on a coin. You can become the best version of you by just believing in who you are and walking your own Path.

Entrepreneurial Spirit is Alive and Well in the Hearts and Minds of Children

March 30th, 2010

Entrepreneurial Spirit is Alive & Well at the Cook Household!
by Terri Cook

This week I would like to talk with you about The Spirit of the Entrepreneur.
Is it a learnt behaviour or is it something that comes naturally, that we all have as children???

I would argue Yes! That it is very much an inherent skill in all of us as children.

Let me explain why in a story…

For those of you in Australia, it’s Summer and for the last 8 – 10 weeks children around Australia have been celebrating the school holidays and relaxing and enjoying the summer fun.

In the Cook house at least, it has released the whole Entrepreneurial Streak.
The children decided they wanted more money (over and above their pocket money from weekly chores). So they set about working out what they could do…

What “need” could they fill for people of which they already had the resources for??? (obviously with no capital!)

So they had a “Big Business Meeting” looking at all the things in the house and yard that could be sold without their mother (that’s me) having a melt down about what they are up to.

What they came up with was truly amazing!!!!! You see, we have stone pebbles around our pool and all throughout the base of it and sometimes these pebbles come loose and collect in the filter and at the base of the pool. So, my clever little vegemites decided that these were the same pebbles used in fish ponds and tanks. So guess what they did. They started to collect all the loose pebbles around the outside and at the base of the pool and the filter and put them into a big bag and decided who they could see or market them to.

So they found something of use, something people need and they collected and decided to market and sell their product .

These are some of the places they came up with to sell them to:

- Family and friends with pools and fish ponds and fish tanks (always go for the family 1st – uncles and aunts have tremendous guilt. LOL)
- Aquariums who sell pebbles – they even thought of painting the pebbles so that they had a variety of different colours to appeal to different people
- They asked me to take them to the local aquarium so that they could see how much the pebbles were selling for and how many you could get for what price. Then they decided to price them accordingly.

BUT HERE’S THE THING…

They decided to expand their market base by offering the pebbles not just to the obvious markets – they decided they would sell them to people for their stone pathways and driveways and day spas and all sorts of things…

Now, they had nowhere near enough pebbles to do this BUT that didn’t stop them from looking and working out all the possibilities of how they could market and make more money for themselves.

When was the last time you did that as an adult??? As adults, our first thought is generally “oh, I can’t do that!!” We look for reasons why we can’t do it rather than HOW CAN WE do something??

The kids didn’t have that limitation! That limiting belief had not yet been planted in their heads.

The whole process of watching them plan their “Pebble Empire” with nothing more than an iceblock, some loose pebbles, having fun and enjoying playing in the pool was transforming.

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HOMEPLAY TIME
So your assignment for this week…

Have a look back over your life – What did you do when you were a kid that you don’t do now?

What was your “Pebble Empire” or “lemonade stand” or newspaper run when you were a kid??

When did you decide that you couldn’t??

What can you adapt as your “Pebble Empire” Now! What skills do you have that you can adapt. Don’t re-invent the wheel. Use what you already have!!

Now practise wiping that “can’t” out of your thinking and vocab in your Biz.

Start focussing on what you WANT – NOT what you DON’T WANT!!!

It’s time to be a kid again!!!

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